What is a selfish person the
dictionary would define selfish as, (of a person, action, or
motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned
chiefly with one's own personal profit or
pleasure. The hard thing is I never realize
that I allow these people into my life until they
have already affected me in a negative way. Selfish
people are the true wolves in lambs
clothing. They are nice, they are extremely
sweet, they are likable, and they will suck the
happiness out of you. Selfish people only care about
their own pleasures and have no
consideration for others even if they are causing that
person pain. The kicker is most selfish
people don't actually know they are selfish and they
end up carelessly walking all over the
hearts of people who care for them. So I'm not saying I
can't be selfish at times but honestly
most of the time I put others needs before my own. It
is a good and bad thing because
I usually end up paying for it emotionally. I need to
establish boundaries with people. I am
not going to be there for people only when they
benefit and need me. While when I need them
there nowhere to be found. I have constantly been the
one to ask how your day is otherwise
nothing. Makes you wonder if a person even cares
about you at all. Who needs a one sided
relationship of any kind... Not me. Time who has time
to waste... not me not on someone
who does not value that time given to them. Why put up
with it? I can't. I need to realize these
relationships are toxic to my soul, to my wellbeing, to
my heart! I am a lover. I love people, I
see the good in people, and I forget that some people
are not like me. They are takers, they
don't know how or are not willing to give of
themselves. They make excuses for their
questionable behavior. I won't be someone’s door
mat. I am moving forward no more repeats of past mistakes. I
WILL NOT let someone try and make me feel bad for what I feel! I am who
I am.
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